Well... we should probably keep the party to three or four people, so that we don't overdo the kicking all at once. After all, too much at once and he won't really feel each and every kick.

Now, I may be wrong, but I get the feeling that your husband is not a brainless idiot, completely focused on his own self without much concern for his wife. That being the case, even if you were to experience some of the PPD stuff, I think he'd be fully supportive of you and help you through it. Most OB/GYNs are saavy and keep an eye out for it, so you'll be fine.

I think I went through a minor case of it after Jacob was born. I kept having the feeling that he'd imposed on our family, but I knew it was stupid to feel that way (especially given how badly we wanted him and tried for him) and couldn't make sense of it. It faded away eventually, and thank god for that.