Oh, I figured that! (largely because you didn't say 'an ex-member of my flist'. lol)

Post made because I had a conversation about a rape case unexpectedly turn into, "Well, I don't mean to blame the victim or anything, but sometimes clothing can send mixed signals. . ." a while back, and it's just like, if I'm going to get unpleasantly surprised again I'd rather it happen through a simple defriending than a huge rise in my Rage Level, y'know?